lost along the paper trail...

ever noticed how life accumulates endless amounts of paperwork? i am so annoyed with paperwork... I spent the day going through old statements, emails i saved, cards, pictures, scrapbooking materials, and all the other material things life throws at us. i have always wondered what life would be like if we lived longer ago. what annoyed them? was it when they ran out of firewood and couldn't keep their homes warm enough?? Or running out of time in the day to complete all the tedious tasks that demanded their attention? hmmm... not sure.

Recently while watching Korean tv, i realized that this country which is very modern is still rooted in many old traditions. i really respect this about Korea. i find it sooo unique that even in their modern, overpopulated city, they still ferment food on their porches in stone pots, have outdoor cooking areas in some places. this week as Korea celebrates Lunar New Year, I wish them the best in the years to come. they have maintained traditions that stretch back thousand of years, and yet they have many modern conveniences. Of course, some of those modern conveniences need to stretch a little further like providing changing tables for babies in more places. despite this, Korea takes the cake for maintaining such a balance.

~~Mel~~

A Day in the life of Josh and Nathan

Josh says HI everyone back home!!! I'm coming to see you really soon, and live there too!

Me and Josh :) We had fun taking pictures of ourselves :)

We aren't exactly shy!





Just a fun photo of the park.



Here's Nathan, who refused to stay in his stroller the last part of the day....Poor Sunny, she had to carry him back, it was like 2 miles.

Photos from Joshua's Baby Class

Here are a few photos from today, and also a photo of my friend Sunny with her son Nathan. :)

Dreams... Truth of Fiction?

So lately, I've been dreaming ALOT! I'm not quite sure what is up with this. Most of the dreams have ranged from very happy to very sad. Last night I was bothered by a nightmare in which a dear friend's husband had died. I'm not sure how to respond to a dream like this. I've never had one like it before. All I remember doing in the nightmare is sobbing uncontrollably, because I know how much it would hurt and how devastated my friend would be. Some truth is found in dreams, and I have to wonder what was the truth here, did it symbolize how much I care for my friend? She recently confided in me her distress and sadness about another situation. Maybe its the fact that a parent of a student has recently died and very suddenly. Anyhow, I know that dreams are fictitious at least I hope!

~~~ Melissa~~~

Have you Ever Wondered???

Have you ever wondered what the world be like if we confronted our problems or people that offend us? I've wondered this for awhile. Recently, my reputation was slandered and the effects are unimaginable. I often struggle with the desire to say how I really feel, and with what I know is appropriate and right to say instead. As much as I want to confront the person who has tried to destroy my career, I hesitate. I worry about the outcome or long term affects of such actions. By confronting would I be just as terrible as them? What if trying to set the record straight only blurs the line between right and wrong? Then enters the idea of what is right from a Christian point of view? Doesn't it say in Matthew to confront the person face to face? What happens if this person uses that ultimately to hurt you more? Just curious what anyone else thinks...

~~~~Melissa ~~~

Wonderful evening in S. Korea

Tonight, we had dinner at some friends' house, and the food was delicious!!!! The evening was ALOT of fun. We enjoyed a meal with mostly Korean speakers, but I find it amazing that even in a room where people cannot communicate 100%, fun can still be had by all. Josh enjoyed rolling around and all the attention that he received. He loves going out, he's a real social butterfly!
Upon arriving home we discovered that Josh might be attempting to pull himself up to a standing position. Children grow too fast. Even in the first month that he was home I cried while thinking about how fast he was already changing and that someday he'd grow up and leave. I think all parents realize this at some point or another. This baby whom is completely depending on you for everything will one day be self-sufficient and hopefully a positive contributor to the world around them. He's so wonderful and we are enjoying him while he still views us as the best thing since sliced bread. I'm sure it won't last forever!

That's all for tonight, we are thankful for many things... our son, and friends that are so kind.

photos of josh today

This is Joshua's handstand that he keeps doing for us ALL the time, crazy, huh?

Josh is enjoying playing by himself in his own room these days... I guess he's getting to an age where he can be more independent, I wonder who he takes after! Its a mystery!

here we go...

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